Noise
I remembered one of the families I worked with had a very bad experience
with noise. Little John (pretend name) and his mom who is single live in a
small apartment on a busiest street in San Francisco, CA. The street is famous with the bars, lounge and
clubs. Every weekend is like a nightmare for little John and Mom because not
only the music may echo to their apartment and the noise that those people who finished
partying made are the most annoying stressor in their life. Mom works full time
in a restaurant and they are barely having enough money to rent this apartment.
Mom stressed to me that poverty is not a stressor to her, but the noise is
really making her and her son’s life miserable. Little John sometimes has
nightmare about monster chasing him when he was woke up by those noise.
Fortunately, we have a Family Advocate to support families in our program.
The FA helped little John’s family found an affordable apartment listed on the
housing list form Episcopal Community services –San Francisco. We are very
fortunate that San Francisco have all these resources support the low-income
families such as housing, emergency housing, food program etc.
When I reflected back to little John’s family, I realized that have
people ever pay attention to the resident around the bar and lounge, have you
ever think of how the noise we are making after a few drinks could affect to
these residency? These questions were also came from a recent news from my home
town.
There is a street in Hong Kong closed after 6pm to 6am for citizen to present
any kind of street performance like singing, dance etc. It is FREE! Many people
and tourist love to come to this street to explore and enjoy the freedom to
express self through art. What a nice place for people to express self through
art! However, all these noisy became a serious stressor to the residents around
this block. There was no voice level control on the street. Many seniors complained
that they have a hard time falling asleep, children have a hard time to focus
to complete their homework. There was also an incident where an senior injury
at home and it took 30 minutes for the ambulance to get through all these traffic
that the performance created. A week ago, the city finally restricted the
street performance will only open in the weekend. Residents are so happy with
this change. These made me reflect on how many time we are having fun and enjoying something while we may be affecting others life?
Reference:
Episcopal Community
services –San Francisco : http://www.ecs-sf.org/programs/housing.html
Many times, we conduct ourselves in daily life with no regard for those around us, oftentimes quite unintentional. There are many stressors that effect our children that many of us do not realize unless we are confronted directly. I'm sure many of us do not think of noise as being a stressor, but when presented like you have, one can truly understand. Educators and caregivers need to be aware that there are things impacting our babies that we may not even be aware of, such as this. We need to be mindful and really get to know our children and families to fully understand their dynamics.
ReplyDeleteKaren,
DeleteYou are right, we often did something that may become a stressor to children in unintentional way. For example, when we rushing a child to finish their meal, it may stress them, however, we did not realize that this could be a stressor.
Hi Joyce,
ReplyDeleteMe also living near San Francisco I can see how the noise can affect the residents in the area. I never really noticed the apartments on top of the restaurants and bars before thanks for giving me awareness of this problem.
Elizabeth